Let’s discuss development. Development implies progress.
- Avoiding development doesn’t speed it up.
- Denying it doesn’t stop it.
- Delaying it doesn’t slow it down.
Why? Development is essential.
The things that we avoid don’t move; we do.
I’ve tried to avoid, delay, or deny development, but it continues.
Scripture says that many are the plans of a person’s heart, but God’s purpose prevails.
Learning from development, whether I agree or not, is inevitable. All experiences are opportunities to learn.
So, what’s the point?
You can resist development, but you’re in the process. Enjoy the process.
Development is not experienced alone.
The most beautiful experiences are often shared, and the greatest connections are often over shared experiences during development.
Becoming the best person involves allowing others to help shape us. While some parts of development are private, much is shared. Authenticity strengthens our connections.
But the truest connections correct and shape us. In love, they urge us toward our best selves by teaching us to unlearn painful particulars that keep us stuck and to be brave enough in the parts that propel us.
Gratitude is necessary.
I’m grateful for those who’ve helped me develop. I’ve learned that connection requires the courage to confront yourself…and it becomes purposeful when done with others.
Be encouraged. You haven’t seen the fully developed picture yet, and one day, you’ll understand how and why it looks the way it does.
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